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New to our website? Welcome! If you’re like most of my readers, you are married (or considering marriage) and desire a strong understanding of healthy communication and want a proven process for handling and resolving all conflict with your spouse, kids, friends, and co-workers.

There’s a lot of content here, and you certainly don’t have to read it all at once, but here’s the order we suggest for new readers. Start below and find the topics that add the most value to your life right now.


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Improve your relationships and create peace with the step-by-step PLEDGEtalk online course! This six-day course includes video teaching, audio downloads, PDF worksheets, and more delivered directly to your email inbox. How much does it cost? You decide! Take the course at no risk to you! Are you ready to learn the formula for healthy communication? Learn more and get started now!


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What is it about conflict that causes all of us to shy away? Why is it so difficult? What if there was a step-by-step process to guide us through conflict and create a deeper connection at the same time? And what if the principles learned could enhance all communication? In The Pledge of a Lifetime, follow Jake and Lisa’s story and discover how to transform tense confrontations into rich conversations. Watch family dynamics improve as everyone works together to communicate in a manner governed by love.

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We’d love to meet you and hear your story! We are currently booking dates through 2015 and 2016. Want to host or attend a conference? Check out our conference page to learn more and see where we’ll be next.


  • Read more about on the About page
  • Read some of our most popular blog posts
  • Watch a video about The Madly In Love Marriage Conference


Once you’re done with all that, if you want to go deeper, we offer personalized coaching on PLEDGE and conflict resolution.

Finally, you can check out some of our favorite books and websites about marriage.

Have questions? Feel free to contact us.

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