In the opening chapter of my book you read the following story about Jake and Lisa:
“I can’t believe you’re telling me this!” yelled Jake. He knocked his chair over with a clatter and stomped toward the front door. “What did I do to deserve this?”
“Jake, come back!” cried Lisa, following him out to the driveway.
“I can’t! I have to get away and think,” growled Jake as he tried to contain his rage.
“I’m sorry! Really, I am! WAIT!” Lisa pleaded as Jake drove off, tires squealing, in his ’94 Mustang convertible.
Okay now stop a moment. Imagine this: you are Lisa…or you are Jake. What do you do next?
Most of us really don’t know. We experience conflict and we hate it – for a number of reasons – one of them being we simply don’t know what to do when it happens!
My heart and passion is to help people find their way through difficult times like the one above. I can only help however, those who are willing to learn.
My challenge for you this week is to do one of the following to further your understanding of how to deal with conflict when it happens:
- Ask a friend, mentor, pastor, or parent what they have learned over the years to help them deal with conflict well. Start a journal and write down what you discover.
- Google “conflict resolution strategies” and write down what you learn.
- Beg, borrow, or – no, don’t steal – buy my book The PLEDGE of a Lifetime and LEARN all you can about how to process conflict well in love!